Don't Proselytize

In light of my post on Wednesday, I wanted to make clear that I have no disrespect towards any religion and I certainly don't want anyone feeling that I would never accept their beleifs. I was trying to find the right words to communicate with you and I was having a hard time because I tend to be harsh with defending what I feel is right. Eventually, I found a perfect article written by Terri Paajanen whom I beleive is an excellent communicator for the Pagan and Wiccan ways. I have followed my religion for 17 years now; I did not learn from the internet or covens, I learned by researching in libraries and choosing my own tradition. I mix quite a few religions, mostly Wicca, but I don't follow anything in particular. Trying to explain this is not easy however, Ms. Paajanen took the words right out of my mouth:

In case you're not familiar with the term, proselytize means to try to convert other people to your religion. Not only is this practice acceptable to those in other religions, it's actively pursued by some. This article explains why this is not done by pagans, and includes some of my own opinions on the matter.

No matter what most pagans may feel about some other religions and their behaviours, it's generally accepted that all religions are valid paths of spirituality. To try and change someone's religious views, implies that one religion is better than another. There is no limit to the number of ways to connect with the Divine. Which path a person chooses is between them and the Gods.

Now, there is a difference between proselytizing and sharing information. Answering questions for someone who is seeking some spiritual answers is not the same as trying to convert them. Because Wicca, witchcraft and other forms of paganism have gotten so much bad press over the last few hundred years, there is a lot of misinformation out there. Trying to ensure that new pagans have access to accurate information isn't the same as trying to convert people to paganism.

One form of proselytization that I have strong feelings against is Christian missionary work. Well-meaning Christians who travel all around the world, to teach the natives about God. In their efforts to bring 'civilization' to these people, they destroy the native religions and cultures. I makes me sad to think how many people lost their own religions, because another was forced upon them.

Be happy that you have found a spiritual path that suits you, and share information about it when other are interested, but don't try to tell others that your path is better than theirs. It's not.

I couldn't have said it better myself. Now you know a little more about me.